Respect Teen agers and understand them!

If the current time and the time of our parents are taken into consideration then we came to know that it has changed totally. Its time when kids want their own space especially teenagers. Teenage is considered as the most difficult and delicate period. It is because teenagers begin to develop their own individual identity, experience biological and physiological changes, become aware about their sexuality etc.

These changes in children have become a matter of concern for their parents. Communication with children is the best solution and of utmost importance as it can hamper or blossom the parent-child relationship for years to come. Following are some quick tips for you:

Be with your child
Spend a healthy and fruitful time with your teen age child. Instead of acting as parents, share with them a peer relation because they prefer spending time with their friends than their parents. Play with them, help them in their home work, plan family outing at weekends and make your bond strong with piece of your heart.

Be calm and patient
This is a stage of life where one faces lot of confusion and don’t find answers of theirs questions. So instead of giving them a sound thrashing, talk to them and let them explain their reasons for doing what they did. And also tell them that how their decisions made you feel.

Don’t spy them
Teenagers are young adults and need some degree of personal privacy so blessed them with the felling of being free.

Tears of a Woman
A little boy asks his mother:
« Why do you cry ? »
« Because I am a woman » she answers.
« I don’t understand » he says.
His mother hugs him and says : « and you never will»
Later the little boy asked his father :
« Why does mommy cry » ?
« All women cry for no reason », is all that his father could answer him.
When he became an adult he asked God :
« God, why do women cry so easily? »
« When I created woman, she needed to be special.
I created her shoulders strong enough to bear the weight of the world…
And soft enough to be comfortable ».
« I gave her the sensitivity to love her children unconditionally.
Even when they have hurt her deeply. »
« I gave her the strength to endure her husband in his faults
And to stay at his side without weakening»
« And finally, I gave her tears to shed whenever she needs them to be shed. »
« You see my son, the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, nor is it in her face or in the way she does her hair.
The beauty of a woman resides in her eyes.
It is the door to her heart ;
The door where Love resides.
And it is often through her tears that you see her heart go by. »
Lift the spirit of other women !
Let the world know that all beings are beautiful!